I was just thinking after I visited my brother that since we moved to Edmonton, I had been looking after and had been guardian to my parents and now my brother.
And it is stressful at times or should I say most times, especially if the person is stubborn. I don't know if they even realize that you are giving up personal time to assist them.
Sometimes I just don't feel like doing anything but then I remember that I need to get something for my brother and I have to drive and get stuff. Lately he has been having problems with controlling his blood sugar and it is difficult to talk to him to make him understand that he would have serious problems if it continues.
Even the staff at the home are at their wit's end getting him to understand how serious the problem is. I am sometimes ready to give up and maybe get him a public guardian. It is not easy as i am the only relative here. And i am still working.
I guess I am just venting. For the next few weeks, I am giving myself a break and will not be visiting. Maybe then, he will get the message. So to those who are guardians, and do not complain, I salute you.
